Melissa Erin Monahan, M.A., LCAT


New York State Licensed Psychotherapist

Conscious Uncoupling and Calling in "The One"

Certified Transformative Relationship Coach

Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC)


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About Melissa

Melissa Erin Monahan



Melissa Erin Monahan, M.A., LCAT

is a New York State Licensed Psychotherapist (license #001347)

and Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC)

specializing in Conscious Uncoupling 

and Calling in "The One" 

transformative coaching worldwide. 

She has been trained and certified

by Katherine Woodward Thomas, M.A., MFT,

New York Times bestselling author

of Conscious Uncoupling and Calling in "The One."

As a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Treatment Clinician (NATC)

Melissa is proud to be among the first cohort of therapists

trained by Dr. Ramani Durvasula,

the world's leading narcissism expert

and New York Times bestselling author of

It's Not You: Identifying and Healing 

from Narcissistic People.

She is passionate about infusing

the powerful Conscious Uncoupling

and Calling in "The One" processes

with narcissism awareness and, when appropriate,

partnership around healing

from these pervasive and toxic dynamics. 

Within the transformative coaching partnership

(integrating the very best of a psychotherapeutic approach) 

every client is empowered to become the source

of their own healing and transformation. 

Conscious Uncoupling clients alchemize

heartbreak into an invaluable opportunity:

the chance to become the love they are aching for.

Calling in "The One" clients master

the profound (yet practical) skills 

of unconditional self-love

as the foundation for a relationship characterized

by shared empathy, deep connection, 

compassion, reciprocity, respect, kindness, mutuality,

psychological safety, growth, cherishing and more. 

Melissa is a former journalist 

who began her career as an intern for ABC News "20/20."

She is a graduate of New York University's

Master's Degree program

in Drama Therapy.

Based on experience within

New York City's inpatient psychiatric hospitals,

Melissa's thesis explored the co-creative role of God

and a person's ability to heal through direct Divine Connection. 



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